Why is it that so many of my friends can't look past things that've happened? And they're not even big things... they're just little things and petty things but for some reason, my friends can't look past them. But when they screw up, I forgive them, I let it go, I don't blow it all up in their face 30 years like a freaking melodramatic drama queen. Maybe it's because I'm non-confrontational, maybe it's because I know what kind of people they are and that whatever happened isn't prone to happening again.
I'd like to see myself as an approachable guy. If you have something you'd like to tell me... if I hurt you or insulted you in some way, let me know. But when you do, don't be a fricking douche bag by bringing it up, making it seem like some huge issue and then avoid talking about it when I try to ask in greater detail how I've done you wrong.
Maybe I should stop forgiving people. Maybe I should keep a journal of how everyone has wronged me so when they bring crap up from 2 years ago, I can say "Hey, you're a douche bag friend but I don't complain."
Thursday, 06 November 2008
Sometimes you make it so hard for me to hate you haha....
Maybe this will be the last xanga post I'll ever write... But goodbye to you... my best friend. I hope a day will come when we can laugh the same way again.
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